Ready to take the plunge into forever? When you’ve found ‘the one,’ it’s time to start planning your proposal. But before you get down on your knee, there’s an important step to take: finding the perfect ring. With an abundance of options and a multitude of factors to consider, the act of ring shopping may seem daunting and difficult at first. This is why we’ve rounded up some of the best tips on how to pick the right engagement ring for a stress-free, joy-filled ring shopping experience.
Set a budget – and stick to it.
While you’ll want to impress your partner with a breathtaking engagement ring, getting into debt because of it is not a great way to start a marriage. According to bridal guide The Knot, the average cost of an engagement ring is around $5,500. This figure should serve as a benchmark as you decide on a budget. Remember, the sentiment behind the ring far outweighs its monetary value.
A stone does not have to be perfect on paper.
Before going on a ring shopping escapade, know your 4Cs: cut, clarity, color, and carat weight. While each factor is significant, the most important consideration is the cut of the diamond, which gives the ring its gorgeous sparkle and brilliance. If you take a modest diamond and cut it perfectly, it will transform into a showstopper. On the other hand, if a top-of-the-line diamond is cut poorly, it’ll look drab and dull.
For the other three remaining Cs, you can compromise to some degree, if needed. A diamond with a lower clarity or color grade will be unnoticed by the untrained eye. Additionally, choosing a carat weight slightly below the next whole number (eg. 1.8 instead of 2 carats) will result in major savings. Opting for a halo or a pavé setting will also create the illusion of a larger center stone and provide a budget-friendly alternative to larger carat weights.
Find the perfect fit.
This shouldn’t be a problem if you’re shopping as a couple, but it could present some challenges if you’re planning a surprise proposal. Most jewelers offer an option to have the ring resized, but putting a ring that’s too-loose or too-tight can ruin the magic of the moment. To prevent this from happening, discreetly measure your partner’s current rings while they’re asleep or not around, or enlist the help of a friend or family member who may already know their ring size.
Research on the different shapes and metals
Before visiting the shops, take into account your partner’s preferences and lifestyle, as well as the jewelry they frequently wear—are they particularly drawn to the classic yellow gold, or do they favor something romantic such as rose gold? Do they favor vintage-inspired pieces, or do they lean towards a more modern design?
To simplify the process, know the different shapes, settings, and metals of engagement rings. Eternal classics like round-cut, princess-cut, and cushion-cut offer enduring appeal, while the radiant, pear, and Asscher cuts cater to those seeking a distinctive character in their ring.
Look at the different settings as well such as solitaire, halo, double halo, pavé, bezel, channel, and three-stone rings, as they will significantly impact the overall appearance of the ring. Lastly, select a metal that complements your partner’s skin tone and addresses their skin sensitivity issues. Whether it’s yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, or platinum, the chosen metal adds the final flourish to the perfect ring.
Timing is everything.
Give yourself more than enough time to shop for a ring, ideally a couple of months before the proposal. Rushing the ring selection process can lead to unnecessary stress and compromises. Take the time to explore various options and enjoy the journey. Remember, this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience that deserves to be savored and enjoyed to the fullest.
